Hi Manny Mo,
My wife & I have just started looking tonight to do pretty much the same. My wife is also Thai living in Hawaii for 4yrs now, wants a child in the worst way, and I can't have kids, so we are looking. I haven't emailed the hospitals in BKK yet, but I'd like to tell you what I do know.
Bumrungrad Hospital (
Bumrungrad International Hospital | Bangkok, Thailand) and Yanhee hospital (
Yanhee International Hospital) are both top notch hospitals.
I don't know if Yanhee (Wongsuwan/ Bango district, off Rama 7) does inseminations, but I would definitely inquire for advise as they have a good english email reply sys.
Bumrungrad (Sukumvit, soi 3) is a 5 star Intl. Hospital and I am almost sure they provide this service as friends of my wife told her they artificially insemin. At Bumrungrad with success the 1st time. They also have a great english email system set up. Pay a little caution to your wallet with them as they do tend to over service a bit. I went in with intestinal pains near vomiting and the doc looked at me for 5 sec. then immediately recommended I go on I.V. and stay the night. Later I learned from others, they almost always do this rather than providing antibiotics and sending you on your way for the extra room & I.V. fee revenues & excellent service ratings that follow (5 star:)
We'd greatly appreciate to hear what you have learned so far.
We are going to look into:
Home kits,
Hawaii (gotta be expensive just like SFO),
California,
And even BKK (we too frequent).
Sawadee & Aloha,
Ae & Dan