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heartbreaker07 · May 16, 2007, 01:26 PM

I started to see this guy, when I asked him if he had a girlfriend he said yes but they are about to break up, I though nothing is going to happen so I continued to talk to him.We ended up having sex, he says he likes me but he has another girl.I tried to stop talking to him, but we work so close that he comes and talkes to me. Its hard to stop talking to him.But he also says that he will leave that girl and I should give him a litt;e ,pre time. Please tell me what should I do?

moomin007 · May 16, 2007, 01:28 PM

Honey, to be brutal.. he's using you.
Dump him out and leave him alone. Its not fair on you or the other girl.
You're worth more than that.
Sorry!

Squiffy · May 16, 2007, 01:29 PM

Cut off all contact with him. About to leave his girlfriend? If you believe that you are insane. If he doesn't want to be with her he can leave her, its simple. He has proven himself to be a cheat, would you really want to pursue a relationship with someone who cheats on their partner? Hardly a good start is it! My advice is, don't have sex with him, don't talk to him, if he comes up to you tell him to get lost. He is a prat, and a cheating one at that!

fix-what-you-broke · May 16, 2007, 01:49 PM

All cheating men say that if they think they can continue to have sex with you... why not leave her right now and have a relationship with you? Because he doesn't have to, you are already sleeping with him knowing he goes home to someone else.

crJgirl · May 17, 2007, 08:59 AM

To be completely honest.. you might be that convenient girl that is there when his girl is NOT... leave him alone---and move on.. you deserve somebodies 100% attention.. this situation will only get trickier and you will def. end up getting hurt.. He won't because he is control.. Move on :)

taeshawn · May 17, 2007, 10:18 PM

Wellllllll everybody seems to ave this one stance but from a little experience of my own I have to honestly say sometimes there are the odd situations and there is a 0.1% chance that he could leave her... if you want to know... cut off the sex and see what happens... use some line about connecting emotionally, the same lines they use as an excuse for sex!! Switch it up to suit your cause...

starfirefly · May 18, 2007, 12:02 AM

Originally Posted by heartbreaker07

I started to see this guy, when i asked him if he had a girlfriend he said yes but they are about to break up, i though nothing is going to happen so i continued to talk to him.We ended up having sex, he says he likes me but he has another girl.I tried to stop talking to him, but we work so close that he comes and talkes to me. its hard to stop talking to him.But he also says that he will leave that girl and i should give him a litt;e ,pre time. Please tell me what should i do??

Think about it this way if he's willing to cheat on her for you won't he be as easily willing to cheat on u for the next girl... once a cheater always a cheater