Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    Gibblets's Avatar
    Gibblets Posts: 57, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
    		  
    #1

    May 16, 2007, 08:06 AM
    How can you tell if a relationship is becoming serious?
    Aside from actually coming out with each other and having a talk, are there some signs that show a casual dating relationship is taking on a more exclusive, serious tone?

    The girl I've been seeing now for 2 months is great, and I think she has a lot of potential as a girlfriend but I'm not ready for a committed, serious relationship yet. I'm not sure what she wants and I don't want to discuss it yet (in fear of what she'll want/don't want) but I think there are signs that should tell me although I'm sort of oblivious.

    Any ideas?
    tickle's Avatar
    tickle Posts: 23,796, Reputation: 2674
    Expert
    		  
    #2

    May 16, 2007, 10:53 AM
    Nothing is better then a down to earth discussion to clear the air no matter what outcome you feel you want. It is best to stay above board I would think. You say you fear what shedoes/doesnt want, but that's life my friend. You can take the good with the bad.
    Rockabilly1955mama's Avatar
    Rockabilly1955mama Posts: 662, Reputation: 85
    Senior Member
    		  
    #3

    May 16, 2007, 10:56 AM
    I agree with tickle.

    Communication is key.
    Gibblets's Avatar
    Gibblets Posts: 57, Reputation: 1
    Junior Member
    		  
    #4

    May 16, 2007, 11:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle
    Nothing is better then a down to earth discussion to clear the air no matter what outcome you feel you want. It is best to stay above board I would think. You say you fear what shedoes/doesnt want, but thats life my friend. You can take the good with the bad.
    Ok... fair enough.

    But what about the other stuff? Like, asking to shower together, or looking at childhood photos or cooking for each other and sleeping over?
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Girlfriend doesn't want relationship now? [ 30 Answers ]

Ok, so where do I begin. I'm 22 and my girlfriend is about to turn 19 in July. We have been together for four years and they have been great. So good that I'm almost a part of her family. We went to Chicago for a week as vacation time and it was good for the both of us. We came back and thing...

Do I really need to be in this relationship? Sometimes I don't think so. [ 8 Answers ]

:confused: This is my story are you ready? Well here we go... my boyfriend and I met over myspace... and 2 months of dating we moved in together... for the first 8 months he lied to me and told me he was a virgin and I had to find the truth on a video tape... well I got to looking at his...

New Relationship [ 3 Answers ]

My boy friend and I have only been dating for 1month and a half, I have a big sex drive and he doesn't the couple of weeks was great but now he only wants sex like once a week, if that, I don't understand the relationship is so new, he says he loves me and he doesn't want to base everything on sex....

Relationship [ 3 Answers ]

Is there anything in the Bible that says that is a female has sex with male that she lwave a part of her spirit or her soul with that man?

Relationship [ 4 Answers ]

Birthdate 10 2 1948 I need advice re my current relationship. Has he been cheating? Is he using me for a place to stay... my car.. Is he capable of commitment? Thank you.

View more questions Search