Don't tell him anything. As you mature and get more experience, you will find out that women like to "talk" and men like to "do"--meaning males would rather be part of an activity that shows that a woman likes them but don't have to listen to a lot of words.
If you see him during the summer, do something with him, even if it's treating him to an ice cream cone (men love food! ) and then starting a conversation about what he likes (usually sports, girls, or cars--or a combination of any of those--also food is a good topic of conversation). If he tells you about how he loves to play softball, do some active listening... "That sounds so cool [exciting, interesting, fun]. Tell me more" or "How did you learn that?"--prompts to keep him talking. And actually LISTEN to him and remember what he says, if you plan to be with him again.
A male is a violin. A female is a bow. Together they can make beautiful music.
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