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    Chopper_Imp Posts: 5, Reputation: 2
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    May 9, 2007, 07:04 AM
    My fiancé loves me, but says she has feelings for someone else
    I have been with my fiancé for 2 1/2 years now. I took on her daughter as my own daughter. We have been going on fine, but she now says that she wants space.

    I looked at the time on her phone the other night, and she had a new message. It was from a lad saying that he missed her etc..

    I have questioned her. She said that nothing has gone on. Is not planning on doing anything.

    I am killing here, I gave up my in my late teens to look after our daughter.

    He has been in prison twice. I don't know what for.. I'd do anything for her, and my daughter..

    But I just don't want to lose her, she isn't right for her..

    What can I do?

    I don't want my daughter around him, he's bad news.. But I want her. But I feel I'm pushing her away with my begging.

    Any help?
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    May 9, 2007, 07:13 AM
    Forgot to say that my daughter was only 3 months old when we got together..

    So she calls me dad, and that's who she knows me as..
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    May 9, 2007, 10:00 AM
    MAN, You're IN DEEP HERE.

    Best way id put it, she's not for you. Listen, if you have doubts in your heart, and she says she's not doing anything, but you have a GUT feeling that she is, chances are You're PROBABLY RIGHT.

    So I don't think she's the one to be with, but with kids intertwined, its so hard, cause you don't want to leave her for the kids sake, but you want to for yours, so honestly the only thing you can do is figure out what you're willing to sacrifice.

    Are you willing to just walk away knowing the kids will miss you?

    Or are you willing to put up with the nonsense and stay with her for the kids sake?

    CHOICE IS YOURS.
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    May 9, 2007, 11:24 AM
    I have said I will never turn my back on my daughter, its just killing me, because I'm trying my hardest to get her back..

    But she has said that I'm pushing her further away.

    Last week we were even trying for another baby..

    Its just all suddenly changed..

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