[yurunthen24]

My girlfriend broke up wit me 2 weeks ago . We have been together for over 3 years. She called me almost everyday since then. One phone call I got she told me she love me. The last call I got she called crying, I guess cause she was frestrated wit her life or sometin. She aked me to please calll her back. When I called back to see what she wanted she wanted me to call back to ask me about furniture. When I asked her was she serious, that's why you wanted me to call! She said no, then yes. She continued to call me until her phone got disconnected. Why keep calling and then say that if you want space? Should I call her since her phone is back on?

[sypher373]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...sed-88429.html

Update your first post rather than starting a new one. I agree with the response to that one, we need more information to give you any kind of clear advice.

[jdumezil]

My gf broke up wit me 2 weeks ago . She called me almost everyday since then. One phone call i got she told me she luv me. The last call i got she called cryin, i guess cause she was frestrated wit her life or sometin. She aked me to please calll her back. when i called back to see wut she wanted she wanted me to call back to ask me about furniture. when i asked her was she serious, thats why u wanted me to call!? she said no, then yes. She continued to call me until her phone got disconnected. Why keep calling and then say that if u want space? Should I call her since her phone is back on?

To my opinion u don't have to call her, if she really like u , she will come back to u. Make her suffer but talk to her friends ask them how she is doing? If they tell u she's happy more then ever before just let it go...

[Skell]

Sounds like she is a bit of an emotional wreck and isn't clear on what she is after. I think a bit of space for both you might do the world of good. Conversation in circumstances like this usually lead to one or both parties being pushed further apart.

If I were you I would leave her for a while. She is contradicting herself by asking for space and then calling all the time.

Perhaps next time she calls you could just answer and explain to her that you think it is a good idea that the two of you take some time alone to figure out what each other wants. Maybe set a time on it. But I wouldn't go rushing to the phone to call her.

[tjburchim214]

Hellz to the no... she wanted the space she got it.