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Questions questions · May 2, 2007, 04:14 AM

Hello..
So I'm dating this boy for the past 8 months and were getting along pretty.. I mean amazingly well.thing is he studies in uk and I'm back home in cyprus. So generally we're good and talk every day etc but then this girl meena comes in the pic. He says she is an indian friend who is just friends with him and I know they've been out to lunch and dinner etc but he insists. I don't know.when I met her she was over excited to meet me. What now?

Bluerose · May 2, 2007, 04:42 AM

Sweetie, welcome to the adult world. We all, if we are very lucky, have friends of both sexes. Try not to look for problems where there are none. Deal only with the facts. If you don't, and you go on not trusting him, you are going to lose him.

If he says they are friends, believe him. At least until you know for sure that they may be more than just friends. Don't mess up a nice relationship simply because you don't see each other every day.

If it's the real thing nothing will get in the way. And if anything does, think of all the time and energy you saved from being in a relationship that was never meant to be anyway.

Hope that didn't sound too harsh but we so often sabotage ourselves by worrying unnecessarily.

Make friends with her too if you can. Get her on your side and she will look out for him for you.