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    heartbrokengirl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 29, 2007, 10:24 AM
    Messed up relationship but I want my boyfriend back
    Hi I've got a really long story it started about 3 and a half years ago I was on a dating website and a boy messaged me with no picture or anything asking me to add him to my msn and for some reason I did, we started talking on msn but I gave him a false name because I had no idea who he was, then we started talking on the phone all the time for about 6months then we decided to meet up still he did not know my real name. We fell in love and saw each other pretty much everyday I just didn't know how to tell him the truth until about a year later, he was OK with it but by that time all his family knew me as this other name so he was really worried and embarrassed to tell them. Anyway 2 years past and we stayed togther then about 3wks ago he finished with me giving the name thing as the excuse, I still can't believe it I am distraught I love this person so much it hurts and he says he loves me but it can't work, I cry everyday because I miss him so much please what can I do to get him back?
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    Apr 29, 2007, 10:44 AM
    Aww honey, he doesn't love you like he says he does. He's just saying that because he doesn't want to hurt you more than he already has and he doesn't want to feel worse for hurting you... (did that make sense?) If he loved you, then he wouldn't care about your name because he fell in love with YOU, not your name. Obviously there is something else going on with him but he doesn't want to tell you, that's why he used the name thing as an excuse. If he doesn't want to be together, then I would not try toget him back. If it doesn't work the first time, chances are, it won't work the second time. Just try to move on and cope with it. It'll be hard and it will hurt, but you'll be okay. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger right? Goodluck and take care.

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