[kaitlinandreg07]

I am currently engaged to my loving fiancé kurtis he takes really goo care of me and has for the last year, although for the past 3 months I have had feelings for his brother, icant explain them I don't know if I am in love with him or not he is gorgeous but I know he is out of bounds can anyone tell me what I can or should do?

[hbpenguin]

You should break up with your fiancé and walk well away from both of them. This could get really ugly. Walk away now.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, if you are having feelings like this for his brother, and not sure if you are in love with him.

You don't need to be engaged to this man and need to take some time away from both of them.

[talaniman]

If you don't know how you feel, or what to do about those feelings, be honest, and find out before you do anything. Take the time you need to figure this out before you make a commitment, as it will be to late after you are married, and that's a disaster waiting to happen.

[Madcap710]

I knew a girl who went through the same situation, and it did not go well.

She broke it off with her fiancé, and began a relationship with the other brother. That did not work out, however. So, now the two brothers still haven't talked to each other.

It was definitely not a "While you were sleeping" scenario.

[mckenzie134]

I can't believe people come on here with ridiculous questions like this. Do you not have any morals and believe in anything. You are saying you might be getting with a guy who will be betraying his own brother what sort of a person is that. Wake up and understand if you meet a guy who is willing to do that to his own blood then what else will he do.?

This is no good. A bad situation and if you go with the brother it probably won't work, well definitely won't be a good life for you. The only thing you will be happy with is him. Don't let love blind you always remember(I learnt this off an ex of mine) A relationship which is healthy and lasts is based on love trust and morals. When you choose to be with someone for life if that's what you end up doing you also receive what comes with that person which is there family. For youi to one day get married and have a happy family imgine going around to your husbands family for christmas and sittingh across from your old fiancée while holding hands with his brother. He would be devastated and I tell you what, well if the brother even thought of getting with you what sort of morals does he have is that the kind opf person you want in your life someoine who would betray his own brother. When making a choice like this you need to wake up.

I feel sorry for your fiancée you probably only like his brother cause you do not have him at the moment this is always a major thing in relationships people liking there partners brothers and sisters especially young people because they also see them a lot but the mysterious factor is always there which leads to attraction

[Skell]

Could it be just a fantasy? Is it just a physical attraction? If so then that's fine. As long as you don't act on it. It is OK to find other people attractive but it should never detract from your relationship. If it does then it is time to rethink the relationship.