[RCPMDR4-EVER]

I have a Boy Friend. He just turned 16. AN I just turned 15... Well, see we REALLY want to get married but the people he lives with and the people I live with won't let us... So if ANYONE knows someplace underage children can get married with out a parent consent or what ever. Please tell me cause I LOVE HIM SO MUCH.

[Emland]

You can love him without being married. Why the rush?

[Lotz_of_Questions]

In most places you have to be over 18 to marry with out a parents concent. Anything younger than that you must have your parents concent.

I got married at 17 and my hubby was 19. So trust me I understand even though we weren't that young. I think you both should wait, keep dating. Finish school and get a job. Right now you might not be able to work because you are too young and school, and your boyfriend can get a job but it he won't make a lot.

Where will you both live? How will you both make it? And with out your parents and his parents approving the marriage I doubt they are willing to help you out.

So just think it though, you are too young right now and so is he, and if in a couple years you both still want to get married, Do It.

Good Luck :)

[ggmagoo]

Your 15 and he is 16 and you want to get married. Where do you guys plan on living? Married people generally don't live with their parents. Do you both have jobs to support yourself (Burger King will not cut it)? Have you thought about the bills you will have as a married couple ….e.g. Rent, Car, car insurance, Utilities, Grocery, Gas, Water, health care, clothing. I encourage you make a list of real world bill so you see the other part of being married. Married people do not have to rely on their parents to assist them with money. Marriage is not only about love, it's about having responsibilities and being able to handle your responsibilities; it's about being self-sufficient. Your 15, finish high school, go to college and get a great job. If the love is real and strong it will wait until you are really ready. You will only be 15 once, enjoy it. At 15 I was thinking about having fun, going to parties, meeting new people. If at 15 your thinking about marriage I can only conclude that you either 1. Have no social life and 2. You clearly have no idea what marriage is REALLY about. You get married at that age you will be in for a rude awakening.

[BINO-15]

I wish you both the best of luck, but there is NO reason to get married so soon.

If you really love each other THAT much, then the love will be there always (like a storybook about high school sweethearts).

The only reasons you could possibly want to get married so early in life is to make a statement to the world that you two ARE really in love (or to quell either one or both of your insecurities that the other will leave). Marriage at such a young age is not the action required by either reason.

Once again, I wish you the best!
(Enjoy each other's love AND DON'T RUSH LIFE!! )

[Krs]

Don't rush!!
Can I ask... what's the rush to get married?

You can still LOVE this person by just dating each other and enjoying each other, grow up together, live the life together, study together, go out together... let it all roll into place.

Are you prepared to start paying bills, and not going out so often so you can pay off your mortgage, etc etc etc...

[shy la la]

Where to go to ask a question?
:)

[justwondering69]

Can I remarry in the usa if I'm already married in canada but I'm seporated/and getting a divorce