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    Dec 5, 2019, 02:27 PM
    Will a married man sex life be better if he have sex conversations with another woman
    I was just told that talking to someone married is helping them with their marriage.
    Men only do it for the attention and this way when they get in bed with their wife they could have good sex. It have nothing to do with the female they are speaking or chatting with. They are using the female to enhance their sex and marriage. They will text and chat with another female all day long just for the attention to make them feel good. They will send a photo of their penis just so they could feel good thinking someone or another female would like it with no intentions on sleeping with that female at all. It is mind game.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 02:49 PM
    That is incorrect. It does NOT help a marriage when you text and chat and accept body-part photos from a married man. Discourage this juvenile behavior immediately!
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    Dec 5, 2019, 02:50 PM
    IMHO, such guys are not only immature but uncaring perverts just looking for an excuse to justify their perversion. You should leave those selfish freaky deakies alone.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 02:53 PM
    I don't think you understand what I meant. The guy is not interested in the other female at all and the wife doesn't know it. I am saying when female is having emotional affair with a married man it's not to her benefit he is using her to make is sex life great in bed especially if he's been married for yrs. They don't want the toher woman at all.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 02:59 PM
    It sounds like this guy is really giving you a snow job on how much you "help" his marriage. No, no, no. A marriage is between TWO people, not three. If the married couple is having problems, they need to seek the help of a marriage counselor.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 03:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybun35 View Post
    I don't think you understand what I meant. The guy is not interested in the other female at all and the wife doesn't know it. I am saying when female is having emotional affair with a married man it's not to her benefit he is using her to make is sex life great in bed especially if he's been married for yrs. They don't want the toher woman at all.
    BALONEY! Who falls for that crap?
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    Dec 5, 2019, 05:42 PM
    This is the biggest load of crap Ive ever heard.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 06:24 PM
    Falls for what?

    Ok so you're saying the guy is texting her because he really want to? I don't think you understand question
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    Dec 5, 2019, 06:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybun35 View Post
    Falls for what?

    Ok so you're saying the guy is texting her because he really want to? I don't think you understand question
    I understand very well and have seen this kind of people who talk a load of baloney to whomever listens to it. The solution is to not let these sorts of people get access to your life. I mean who lets someone play games with their mind?

    That's sick!
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    Dec 5, 2019, 06:52 PM
    I completely understand. This man is taking advantage of you and your lack of understanding of how healthy relationships work. A married man should NEVER send pictures of his penis to another woman. I guarantee you that if his wife found out about this relationship he has with you she would divorce him at the drop of a hat.

    Now, to add, you are no better of a person because you continue to entertain the advances of a married man.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 07:06 PM
    But it's all entertainment it's nothing.hes doing it to have better sex or to get hard for her
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    Dec 5, 2019, 07:15 PM
    While hes having sex, hes thinking of you. Not his wife. She will call you the home wrecker when she finds out. And she will find out.
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    Dec 5, 2019, 10:25 PM
    Isn't that making their marriage better anyway? Why would he be thinking of me if he's sexting his own wife
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    Dec 6, 2019, 03:35 AM
    If you cannot ask the wife if the marriage is better with a side chick sext buddy then you cannot say it helps the marriage even if he and YOU think it helps him. This isn't entertainment. It's going behind the wife's back by a devious husband and a female willing to help him be devious.
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    Dec 6, 2019, 04:53 AM
    Why would I ask wife like you said it's behind her back.the question I think was misunderstood.i don't mean the other woman doing it to help the marriage cause she want to.im saying by her having sexual conversation with a married man in any situation.to the guy it's actually helping him be closer to his wife.she pushing them closer without realizing it.
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    Dec 6, 2019, 05:21 AM
    That may be the husbands story, and her excuse to play along, but it's still behind the wifes back and that's what makes it so wrong on so many levels. Only someone that cannot see the wrong of such deciet, deception, between a husband and wife could fall for that, and knowing the guy is married and carrying on in such a manner is in itself bad behavior on both parts.

    I can find no excuse for a husband and another person to carry on such behavior. Can YOU?
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    Dec 6, 2019, 07:29 AM
    the female is not doing it to make it better the husband is using her and she doesn't know it. The other woman not trying to help him .I am saying the man has no intentions on any sexual needs with the other lady he is using her to make his sex life better with his own wife.
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    Dec 6, 2019, 07:46 AM
    His intentions don't matter does it? It's downright despicable behavior, even from the unknowing female sexting/texting with a known married guy.
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    Dec 6, 2019, 07:58 AM
    I know it don't but that was the question so wanted an answer. that was the reason for the question. Even if it don't matter.
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    Dec 6, 2019, 08:05 AM
    Is it to much to expect a female to know better? That's why most people would say single people should leave married people alone because you never know about what the intentions are, or even if they are good or bad, truthful, or lying.

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