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    honeybun35 Posts: 221, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 24, 2019, 08:40 AM
    Would you say someone cares if they ask how you are feeling?
    Ok so everyone knows my story with fwb and the other fellow. The other fellow is just friends we've dated many yrs back. I still see my friendship with him is more real than the fwb guy. The one I've dated many yrs ago and just remain friends he will ask me how I am doing. Well this past weekend I had terrible nerve problem in my elbow and arm.I had told him that I was in pain. He goes Darn baby are you in pain. I said yes. So even the next day without me texting him first I get a text msg from him. How are you feeling?

    There's other times he seen me post stuff in the past like couple yrs ago either I was in the E.R or just a dr's visit. I've notice he will hit me up text me. Even if he didn't mention why I realized because he saw the posting as to where I was at. As of the other guy I haven't even spoken to him yet.This is not a relationship but I am speaking terms of a genuine friend.
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    mmresd Posts: 2,002, Reputation: 553
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    Sep 24, 2019, 05:05 PM
    I would say that usually when someone asks how you are doing as a follow up it is safe to say they care. The question is whether they care for you simply as a friend or as more than a friend, the only person who could know the answer to that is themselves. So I would suggest, that if you are looking for a significant other and are wondering whether this long time friend has romantic feelings for you all you have to do is ask.
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    honeybun35 Posts: 221, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 25, 2019, 05:56 AM
    I don't want to just come out and ask. It is a lover from a long time ago but we are still friends.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855

    Sep 25, 2019, 07:00 AM
    I do not understand your question as of course he is JUST a real good friend. I know you're grateful for his friendship, but I fail to see why you seem confused about it.

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