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    Juniper2016 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 15, 2019, 09:08 PM
    He just wants to be friends... do I do that?
    We dated for three months, everything was going really well. I met all of his friends and some of his family and apparently they all loved me. Honestly, everything was going exceptionally well. He had the conversation with me about the fact we werenít seeing other people as he dropped me off at the airport before Christmas. I went home for ten days and I havenít seen him since. I asked him what the deal was and he said he lost feelings for me over the ten days I was gone... that he had a lot of feelings for me before but he lost them for some reason and doesnít know why but wants to be friends. My girlfriend told me he had been talking to another girl which she found out while I was gone... I confronted him about this and he said he didnít choose to be single because of someone else and that he wants to be friends with me because we get along so well. Am I just being ridiculous in starting to believe this? Should I be friends or am I just being weak?
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    Oliver2011 Posts: 2,606, Reputation: 746
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    Jan 17, 2019, 10:16 AM
    Is this middle school? Regardless, leave the guy alone and move on.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855

    Jan 17, 2019, 10:37 AM
    Sure be friends, AFTER you have gotten over the shock and confusion of being dumped because somebody better came along. Until then leave him alone and cut any contact, and go about your healing business. Take your time and then you can better decide if YOU want to even be his friend.
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692

    Jan 17, 2019, 09:11 PM
    I would leave him alone and cut him out of my life for now, Later if you want to be friends fine but time to get over him.

    10 days, wow, so he really never felt a lot for you.
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    mohsin7t6 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 18, 2019, 02:12 AM
    I would disregard him and cut him out of my life until further notice, Later on the off chance that you need to be companions fine however time to get over him.

    10 days, stunning, so he extremely never felt a great deal for you.
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    liz28 Posts: 4,662, Reputation: 1034
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    Feb 2, 2019, 04:01 AM
    Just because he want to be a friend doesn't mean you have to. Sometimes things just doesn't work out and it can be a blessing in disguise. So to answer your question "do i do that", no.

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