Wow! His best friend died and you think he is mad at you?!
Cutie, be a little more understanding. I can't even imagine what he is going through. I don't even know what you can possibly say to him. But, whatever it is, let him grieve. Give him this time to just grieve. Don't expect him to be a "boyfriend" right now. Just give him some time and be as supportive as you can. If you see that he's not handling the grief in a healthy way, do your best to get him help. You know, a big part of being in a relationship with someone is learning to compromise and to even be a little selfless sometimes.
So, don't take it personally. Don't feel bad. He must be having a really rough time and not able to be the best boyfriend to you, right now. Just be supportive and patient.
Also, is there more to this than what you posted? Do you feel like he is taking it out on you on purpose, or something? It's a different story if he is being abusive to you or taking out his anger or sadness on you. You don't deserve that. You haven't said much in your post so my reply is only based on what you wrote.
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