Originally Posted by
snowlady
The boss told me several months ago that I just didn't fit. That I am too nice.
Everyone in the office is younger than I am. There is no professionalism. One of their predominate forms of fun is "potty talk" directed at each other, which I find juvenile and offensive.
Ok, you may not have
told them that you find them juvenile and offensive, but do you really think that they aren't picking up on this? You wrote it, not me. It doesn't sound like a place I would like to work, and it appears that many other people don't want to work there either. But that is not, in itself, enough to make it a hostile work environment, in my book. Unpleasant, unfriendly, sure. But apparently 7 other people have no issues with it, and may even like it that way.
In case your curious, here's the definition of harassing speech:
Speech can be punished as workplace harassment if it's
"severe or pervasive" enough to
Create a "hostile or abusive work environment"
Based on race, religion, sex, national origin, age, disability, veteran status, or, in some jurisdictions, sexual orientation, political affiliation, citizenship status, marital status, or personal appearance,
For the plaintiff and for a reasonable person.
So the first thing to settle is whether the environment is negative based on one of the listed categories, and the second is whether a reasonable person would agree with you.
And, let's assume for a minute that it is in fact a hostile work environment, and you decide to take them to court. What exactly do you want to get out of that? Money? The right to continue working with these people? Because even if the court finds in your favor, it's highly unlikely that 7 people who have apparently been acting this way for some time are going to change their behavior. And even if you win a monetary settlement, you are still going to have to collect it, and that may take years.
Sometimes that best thing to do is to cut your losses and chalk things up to a learning experience. But I am not a lawyer, and it may be that you have a case.