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    angleyez62 Posts: 10, Reputation: 0
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    Apr 11, 2007, 10:18 AM
    Love and war
    So my boyfriend and I love each other I guess you could say. I am crazy about him for sure.. but since we have been together (about a year now) we have been known for fighting. Everyone knows that we fight often enough (not nearly as much anymore) so that must say something! But I cannot leave him, I have tried but I do love him... when we are happy... we are like a picture perfect couple you see in movies! I don't know what to do! We have discussed it many time and it progresses sslowly and I know that it will get better buit I don't have a life time to wait for it. I don't expect no fights at all.. but every second day... it's a little much, don't you think?
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    Apr 14, 2007, 11:52 AM
    Would be too much for me, have you both tried mediation to find out the route of the problem?
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    Apr 14, 2007, 01:28 PM
    Louie has a good point. If you get married, it is going to get worse, not better. You might want to seek out the help of a couples/marriage counselor. You both need to learn how to communicate with each other in a more positive and productive way. I could not imagine spending half my time fighting with my partner. I would rather be alone than be subjected to that.
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