[mmeans]

K so I've had sex 2 time and we quit because I didn't like it. I never bleed or anything and I was to young I felt like and
My mom is taking me to an obgyn Thursday because of some menstrual cycle problems I didn't have periods!! Even if I didn't blead and we didn't do it for more than 5 minutes can they still tell if in a virgin or not?? Help me pleas. Thanks

[J_9]

How old are you?

[Alty]

This is posted in the Child and Teen Health forum. How old are you?

Not all women, or in this case children, bleed the first time they have sex. Bleeding has nothing to do with loss of virginity. You had sex, so you're not a virgin.

Stop playing adult games you're not ready for.

[smoothy]

If you has sex for even 1 second you are no longer a virgin, and you never will be again. And yes they might or might not be able to tell. And as was pointed out... LOTs of women and girls have gotten pregnant the first time they had sex. And some here have gotten pregnant despite using three forms of birth control correctly. Something few young people actually do the right way.

So basically. If you have sex, you can and might become pregnant... and that will change your life and your future almost immediately and forever. And if you are young. Almost certainly for the worse.

[ScottGem]

because of some menstrual cycle problems I didn't have periods!!

Does this mean you stopped having periods after those 2 sexual encounters? Or that you haven't started your period. If the periods stopped, then it is possible, even probable, that you are pregnant. So whether the doctor can tell if you are a virgin or not is the least of your worries. If he finds that you are pregnant then everyone will know you are no longer a virgin.

You can ask that mom not be in the examining room and tell your doctor the truth and ask that he not tell your parents. If you request it he probably won't. But telling them if you are pregnant is a different matter.

As was said, you chose to play adult games and now have to accept the adult consequences.