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    jeremy4719 Posts: 136, Reputation: 4
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    Apr 10, 2007, 08:01 AM
    Relationship & Sex
    I've been in a relationship for 1 year and 4 months, 4 of which I'm engaged... My relationship has had its ups and downs, but lately I'm growing frustrated... I typically am getting sex or love making about 3 times a month, and a lot of that has to do with my fiancé working 120hrs out of every two week periods... But should I honestly have thoughts of a relationship demise because of the lack of sex? I really am a sexual person and need the physical satisfaction that has been lacking for a while... Should I continue on, knowing she is working more to be able to be with me a bit more in the coming future or what? I just can't take the stress of little sex, it makes me want to go other places in my mind (even though my heart is with my woman)... Our sex life was pretty good during the first several months of our relationship, but her work picked up greatly as noted above... We had sex probably 15 times a month then... Suggestions??
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    Apr 10, 2007, 08:14 AM
    There isn't a lack of sex in your relationship due to changed feelings towards each other.
    You said so yourself, it's because she's working hard to better your future TOGETHER.
    That is no reason for you to end this relationship. From what you've said, she is working for the both of you.
    I'm sure it gets frustrating, but it seems to be only temporarily.
    Don't be immature and selfish and end the relationship because she is working hard for a better future for the both of you.
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    Apr 10, 2007, 10:17 AM
    Don't be immature and selfish and end the relationship because she is working hard for a better future for the both of you.
    Read this over and over till you get it as it save me from saying some un nice things. Give this lady a lo of understanding and a foot rub.
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    Apr 10, 2007, 04:25 PM
    A relationship and marriage isn't all about sex. It involves professional lives as well. Do you have one??
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    Apr 10, 2007, 04:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Skell
    A relationship and marriage isnt all about sex. It involves professional lives as well. Do you have one???
    Skell brings up a good point. Do you actually have your own career.

    Relationship is not all about sex. If you can not go without and your thinking of being with other people then maybe your not ready for a commitement with just one person.

    If you have an urge or you feel sexual. Why not get down on your knees or lay in bed and make yourself feel good once in a while.

    Okay yes, I just said that.

    It is time to look at the priorities. What is most important. Everybodies sex drive is different and honestly if you have too much all the time it will become routine. Having sex or making love less frequent will make it more hot for when it does.

    It is all in the out look and you need to be looking at this a lot more differently before throwing a good thing away.

    Joe
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    Apr 10, 2007, 05:17 PM
    Well you can always BEAT YOUR MONKEY (JACK OFF) :)
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