[NewMommy7889]

Hi, I know I've asked this a couple times already, but I'm just going to ask one more time so I can leave it absolutely all behind me and stop worrying and focus on my baby.

Ok, I cheated on my boyfriend on 12/12. and it was just that one time. Then me and my boyfriend got back together and I've been with my boyfriend ever since. I did have a period 12/24 I spotted for two days then RIGHT AFTER got my period and it was pretty normal, lasted about 6 days. I took a pregnancy test around 1/5 or so and it was negative. Took another test on 1/25 and it was positive. Made my first appt for an ultrasound 2/5 and all I saw was a sac (which the sac measured about 6-6.5 weeks) but no heartbeat. Doctor said I was about 5 weeks. Went back to the doctor 2/20 and measured to be about 7 weeks and 3days. The doctor gave me an estimated due date of 10/6. My last ultrasound visit was 3/13 and measured to be about 11 weeks and 3 days (46mm), but doctor changed my due date to 9/29.

Is there any way I could have conceived on 12/12? I'd love to ask my doctor and get all this off my chest but my boyfriends family goes with me as well and I only want go ask if it's absolutely necessary! And I don't think DNA tests would be necessary due to the dates being spread apart and also my boyfriend is black and other guy is white.

I hate I put myself in this position but I'm just trying to get answers as much as possible. I really don't want to disappoint his family and mine as well. They are all so excited! And it would be so embarrassing.

[Fr_Chuck]

First, a black and white couple can have a baby is looks completely white, so, how the baby looks, has little bearing on the father issue, If the white person had any black heritage at all, (the baby could have a black characteristics. Going by how the baby looks at birth is really a poor gauge of anything.

It would be very rare, that you could have a period, after the sex, and be pregnant from the other man. Since you said, it was a normal period, not light.

The issue with conception dates they can be off one to two weeks, (one week is more common) So dating, and how many weeks you are, are just estimates according to fetus development. That is estimated from normal growth process, which some babies are ahead of, and some behind. (thus why it is averages)

I forgot the dates of sex with boyfriend, but if I remember your previous posts, the date of sex was close. If that is the case, really a DNA test after birth is the only real way to be 100 percent sure.

[ScottGem]

First, The site lists your post count as 1, this means you created a new ID to ask this question again. Something that is against the site rules. I'm not going to spend time trying to find your other ID, but if someone comes across them this ID will be banned.

Second. Since you got your period after the 12/12 encounter, it would appear unlikely that it resulted in pregnancy. But it CANNOT BE RULED OUT! If we have told you that before, it hasn't changed. I'm sorry but there is no way to do so without a DNA test.

[DoulaLC]

The results from your ultrasounds... measurements and what could or couldn't be seen, have been consistent with a later conception.