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    julie2015 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 30, 2014, 09:20 AM
    Then j 9 unless she make first real move next week I will out of my work context and if I get in trouble we can blame it on love lol because I can keep this for myself anymore 3 months enough one of my co workers marry his client and met her same way and he ask her out after work though
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    Nov 30, 2014, 09:33 AM
    julie, may I ask what type of work you do?

    You seem to be hanging your hopes on an aborted hug and her asking for your name. If she is your client, shouldn't she already have your name?

    Understand that a someone who is hurting can say things that aren't exactly true in an effort to hurt the person who hurt them. You seem to think a video at work would protect you from any fallout but it can't and won't if she claims your harassment was outside of the workplace.

    Frankly, I do not recommend dating or even thinking about romantic relations with someone connected to your work. I include other employees, bosses, and clients. It is too easy for misconstrued words or actions to cause major issues and cost people far more than they realize.

    If you do contact her, start out as a friend not a potential lover. You may find that she was looking for a friend instead of something "more". You might even attempt to apologize for what she may have perceived as rude behavior.
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    julie2015 Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 30, 2014, 09:44 AM
    I can't say here what type of work I do and at my work we go by nick name only not the family name my work field it's a public services but as a professional some of my co- worker did a lot worse then just asking to a lady if she as personal feelings I'm not a therapist but video are in action as it's a public place

    Yes anyhow friendship will be the starter thanks for your concerned
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    Feb 13, 2015, 12:03 PM
    So did Julie get the girl? Inquiring minds.

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