[tinkerstudly]

I broke up with my boyfriend in mid sept. I found out after all summer he had cheated on me with at least 2 different girls. I had wanted to break up with him for over 2 years but felt sorry for him when he would cry or beg me to stay. I am upset because he didn't need to cheat. He could have had his freedom. I told him I knew what he did and he yelled and flipped out. He now has driven past my house several times. And when I went out on a date he popped out of nowhere and banged on my car window an said "I want to talk to you and get out of the f%^ car". I drove home and when I got there he jumped out from behind a neighbors car and said" are you dating again. If I catch you on a date I will punch him out and you will get yours b@#%." I pressed my panic alarm and my mom came and save me. In addition someone at my work in another city saw a car fitting his description and then my tires were slashed. I am wondering why he is acting this way. He is the one that cheated and broke the trust between us. But he is acting like I am the one who did him wrong. I am upset about the betrayal and on top of it have to be worried for my safety. How do I move on from this drama? And I have applied for a restraining order and it has been granted temporarily as he denied the petition so I have to go to court now.

[CravenMorhead]

It is Restraining order time! Go to the police about this. If he does anything you call the cops. 911.

From what I can gather he's got this sense of privilege that requires him to have anything and everything he wants. He is the one that cheats. He is the one that breaks up. He is the one to let you know when he is done with you. He's on a power trip and thinks that he can still control your actions even though you're not together. The only way to deal with this now is the law. Blocking all contact won't work anymore because he knows you well enough that he can ambush you like he has done. You need to get the law on him as soon as possible.