Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    runobi's Avatar
    runobi Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Oct 7, 2014, 01:15 AM
    Messaging Tinder match on Facebook
    I found a match on Tinder app. the other day. I messaged her and she messaged me back. We seemed to have a lot in common. The next day I was going to message her again and found her profile and our conversation were gone. I can accept the possibility that she deleted her profile because she met someone else. But there's also the possibility that there was a glitch in the Tinder app. (or server).Anyway, I recognized her picture because she's a belly dancer at a local Moroccan restaurant. And I found her profile on Facebook. My question is should I take a chance and send her a message on Facebook? I don't want to miss the chance at meeting someone because of the possibility the Tinder app (or the server) deleted our conversation.Thanks!
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
    		  
    #2

    Oct 7, 2014, 04:20 AM
    One way to find out is try another text.
    Cat1864's Avatar
    Cat1864 Posts: 8,007, Reputation: 3687
    Marriage Expert
    		  
    #3

    Oct 7, 2014, 04:58 AM
    I would proceed with caution if you do contact her.

    She may have met someone or someone may have set up a fake profile using her picture/information. If it was her and she deleted the profile for personal reasons or it was a glitch, she could find it creepy and unsettling if you contact her on Fb.
    runobi's Avatar
    runobi Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #4

    Oct 7, 2014, 11:06 AM
    Talaniman, I met her on a dating app. on my iPhone. It's call Tinder. With our brief conversation we have a lot in common. I recently read that the Tinder app. has been having some server issues. It's frustrating to know that our messages may have been dropped because of this.
    I recognized her picture because a couple of years ago I was at a local restaurant where I saw her belly dancing. I found that she has her own website and FB page for belly dancing.
    What would I say to her if I messaged her on FB? I'm not a stalker and I definitely don't want to creep her out.
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
    		  
    #5

    Oct 7, 2014, 11:36 AM
    I wouldn't contact her on Faycebook without her expressed invitation. You may have to forget contact with her for now without any more information. Site glitch or her choice doesn't matter, it's just bad luck/timing but clearly beyond your control.

    Sorry.
    runobi's Avatar
    runobi Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Oct 7, 2014, 12:11 PM
    Thanks for your time and advice!
    Triysle's Avatar
    Triysle Posts: 245, Reputation: 84
    Full Member
    		  
    #7

    Oct 7, 2014, 03:40 PM
    Facebook recently made some policy changes that require profile pages to made with a person's real name. Many performers (including Belly Dancers) use stage names for their profiles and are being forced to either change their names or shut their pages down. A lot of them are moving to Ello and discarding their FB pages as a result.

    This may factor in, and it may not. I just thought I'd share the info.

    Best regards.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Baffles at Well Point Match Galvanized Pressure Tank but don't Match Bladder tank [ 2 Answers ]

I have been looking for answer to air in the lines for a while now. I was sure that the water level had dropped in my artesian well. I thought the pump was too near the surface of the water level. As it turns out, I was totally wrong. The problem was that there was a mismatch between my pressure...

I broke up with my BF yesterday. He's messaging me on Facebook saying he's confused [ 3 Answers ]

I love him very much but I had to end it because we were in a long distance relationship. Although our time together was amazing, being apart from him upset me too much. He was also terrible at communicating via text, etc. Sometimes he’d go three days without contacting me. It wouldn’t have been so...

View more questions Search