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    Beyourself_xox Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 8, 2014, 05:46 AM
    Making friends
    Hello, I'm having a big problem, so me and my 2 friends are besties, but we met this girl and she is super annoying and liar and follows us everywhere! But we don't know how to get rid of her without hurting her feelings. Btw we camp, and my two friends are not there this weekend and that annoying girl is, so I was thinking of making new friends and they have lots of girls my age because my friends are younger than me by 2 years. But, I'm too SHY. And I don't want to hangout with that annoying girl. So please help me I don't know how I can become friends with them. Please help!
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    Jake2008 Posts: 6,721, Reputation: 3460
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    Aug 8, 2014, 10:01 AM
    See how treating someone badly, comes back and bites you in the butt?

    You hang out with your regular two friends, include the outsider, even though you dislike her and say she is a liar.

    The annoying, new girl, is trying to be accepted by you and your two besties. Now you are trying and worrying just like she probably was, to fit in with new people when you go camping. The new girls you meet, may find you too, to be annoying.

    You're not to shy to talk behind the annoying one's back. It's a different situation when you don't have equally like-minded people who have the same bad behavior.

    Maybe think about how you treat people, because some day you may very well be taking a walk in their shoes.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Aug 8, 2014, 10:24 AM
    You mean you can't make it a weekend without your besties? Perfect time to find out about the annoying girl, and see if maybe she isn't as bad as you say. Seems to me you are in the same position she was with you and your friends. The new girl who knows no one else. You might have more in common than you think.

    Try it. Why not?

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