[mrsmoz]

Hiya there!

There use to be 6 of us in our close circle of friends until about a month or 2 ago. One of the girls decided and told some of us that we are to childish for her and she wants new friends. To be honest it was kind of an easy way out for us because she is so selfish and see's evrything as a competition and loves to make us look stupid! When I asked her why she thinks we are childish she said it was because we still wher trainers an she now onli has 1 sugar in her tea!! ( u can see it is her that is the childish 1)
She has slaged us of on a number of occasions as well! Well she found a knew group of friends and they saw her true colours much sooner than expected and stopped talking to her. After a lot of licking they gave her another chance but less than a week later she betrayed their trust again! So now she is friendless!
We have now been told she has a plan to worm her way back in with ''jo'' the quieter 1 of the group, get jo on her side then be friend all of us again 1 by 1! This girl is nuts! She vowed she would never go out with us agen because we do her head in and now she has this little plan!!
We have been told we can't say anything about her plan as she told someone to keep it quiet but how to we keep her out of our circle! We are all nice girls and haven't got it in us to tell her 2 fuk off which is what we want 2 do, but I can see 1 of us losing it wit her and it cumin 2 blows!! Ant suggestions??
Thanks

[chuff]

Well your right about one thing. This girl is not your friend nor does she exibit any behaviors to anybody that is friend worthy. She's a user and must really not like herself to be so careless about trading friends.

If you don't want to tell her to F off I would recommend that you go in the exact opposite direction. Be overly polite to her. Don't ever approach her but when she approaches you and starts talking smile and say things like "that's so interesting" and "thank you for sharing that" and "I'm so happy to hear your doing well." Things of that nature, always be complimentary and happy around her as she is not a happy person emotionally and it will only make her more upset that other people can be happy and she can't be.

When she starts asking to do things with you politely deline and tell her "I'm sorry, but I am doing such and such." She might ask a couple times but eventually she will get the message and try her scam on another group of people.

[mrsmoz]

thanks chuff!! Well its been a couple of weeks now an we have still not spk to her. We saw her down the pub once an we smiled at each other. Her new friend came up to me while I was smoking outside, she introduced herself an asked if I was ''kates'' ( kate is the evil 1) I hesitated but then said yes, then she said, ohh cool, kate was telling me how u both sing this song 2getha an how funny it is!! I said sorry love I don't no wa your on a about?? I didn't eitha, kate must of made it up 4 sum weird reason?
thanks again