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    Apr 12, 2014, 01:42 PM
    Unable to have an orgasm-female
    Hi my name is Alice,

    I never for long time seems to have an orgasm. Only when I use a stimulator. What do you think seems to be my problem can someone please tell me?
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    Apr 12, 2014, 07:47 PM
    I don't think there I anything wrong with you. Just your partner doesn't know what gets you off, and you have to show him what you like, and how you like it, so he can help you get off. Does he know how to use your "stimulator"?

    How long have you been together and can you talk to him about getting your rocks off?
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    Apr 12, 2014, 09:44 PM
    Can you get one, by manual stimulation, when you do it yourself?

    Is your partner using your simulator on you prior to starting actual intercourse, and allow you to have orgasm first?
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    Apr 12, 2014, 10:13 PM
    Vaginal or clitoral orgasm? Many women cannot orgasm through vaginal stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is required for many women.

    You need to communicate with your partner what does and does not feel good to you.
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