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    kte239 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 28, 2014, 08:12 PM
    Is she turning me down?
    So Im a junior in high school and about 2 months ago I met this girl. We both liked each other a good amount as we got to know each other better, and so I asked her out one night. She agreed, and we both enjoyed the date. At this time, it seemed like she was really into me, as she texted me a lot and what not. But for the next month I became really busy with school and all that and did not see her for that whole month. I still tried to keep up text conversations but it seemed like she was slowly losing interest in me. When I finally had time again, I asked her out on another date. I told her I wasn't busy anymore and was going to do my best to keep up a relationship. After I asked, she told me she already had planned to be with other friends that night. So a couple days later, I asked if she wanted to grab some coffee, and she told me she was sick, but promised she wasn't trying to bail on me and that she would do it another time. And now this weekend she is going to be with her friends again... It seems like she's lost interest in me and doesn't want to try to make time to see me. I'm always the one who texts first, and she doesn't really keep up a conversation. Its making me feel like I've been kind of pushy and annoying lately. Should I just wait? Has she lost interest in me? Is there a way I can get her back?
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    smoothy Posts: 25,490, Reputation: 2853
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    Mar 28, 2014, 08:52 PM
    Yep... thats what she's doing. Time to walk away from this one while you still have some dignity.

    She's been trying to make you be the one to make the choice to walk away...
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    odinn7 Posts: 7,691, Reputation: 1547
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    Mar 28, 2014, 09:22 PM
    She probably didn't like the idea that you weren't available for a month but now you expect her to be at your beck and call...she was probably interested in seeing you more than only texting you for a month and hearing that you were busy. If you like someone and are really interested in them...you make some sort of time to see them. Since you didn't, she probably gave up and moved on. You should too....but learn from this one.
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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
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    Mar 28, 2014, 11:01 PM
    Leave her alone. You didn't have time when she was interested now she is no longer interested.
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    Mar 29, 2014, 03:59 PM
    You had your chance, you blew it being too busy for her. Now she is too busy for YOU. Take the hint and leave her alone.

    What goes around comes around!

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