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    Mar 11, 2014, 02:12 PM
    I love her but can't have her
    I love girl and she is so important to my heart but she is always thinking of his ex boy friend. So now she is not happy with me. What should I do to make her love me and stop thinking of her ex boyfriend?
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    Mar 11, 2014, 02:38 PM
    You don't LOVE her... you have an unhealthy CRUSH on her. Its obvious you are extremely young because you clearly don't understand what love is (love is never one sided)... and the fact one can never MAKE another like much less love them.
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    Mar 11, 2014, 02:49 PM
    There is nothing you can do...if she doesn't have the feelings, you can't make her have them.

    I love Kate Beckinsale and I've finally accepted that she will never love me...it's a tough world we live in.
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    Mar 11, 2014, 03:10 PM
    You can't make her love you. She is still stuck on the ex. It's time to leave her alone.
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    Mar 11, 2014, 03:17 PM
    You leave her alone to heal her own heart. And you let your own heart heal.
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    Mar 14, 2014, 04:44 AM
    First off. That's an unhealthy obsession... its not love if anyone does that... its also seriously creepy to any normal person. Other people do NOT appreciate that kind of obsession.

    Having a personal stalker is NEVER the best thing that can happen to a person... people that do this manage to make the news all the time when they finally cross the line and harm the person they are obsessed over for not reciprocating.
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    Mar 14, 2014, 05:34 AM
    DITTO! Creepy yes.

    Obsessive and stalking behaviors are never attractive!
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