[alycat14]

What should I do: I asked out my best friend and he said no, we used to flirt until the Christmas vacations and he started to flirt with one of my best friends, does that mean he likes her or he just doesn't like me?

[teacherjenn4]

If he said "no", then he does not want to go out with you. If you value your friendship with him, then don't question his answer.

[Homegirl 50]

He may like her or someone else. He does not like you the way you like him, so it's best for you to forget about going out with him.

[talaniman]

He still likes you as a friend, but may see things differently if he thinks you like him for more. That's not a bad thing as it gives you time to handle his rejection of your date offer. Act normal, and in time you can be friend s again. He probably like to be flirty.

[Fr_Chuck]

He most likely likes you like a friend, often the lines of friends and flirting get blurred sometimes. So he may like other person for girlfriend or just like everyone as friends.

[Aikira]

One, never fall in love with your best friend. Two, sorry to burst your bubble but he just isn't interested in getting into a relationship with you for now. Asides from that, I can't tell you if he has feelings for you or the other girl or just anyone else but I can tell you to just move on and enjoy whatever you can now, because relationship in my opinion is something serious and a lot of effort and dedication must be put into it to keep it going.You'll find someone out there. Don't stress on it too much, it's really normal for such things to happen to us daily. He flirts with you because he's comfortable being just like that with you, in other words he sees you as a friend or best friend. Well since you confessed to him and got rejected, just take it slow with him for now and soon you'll be back as friends. Blame no one for the rejection, not even yourself because in the end of the day it's just a risk, a confession where its either a yes or a no and rarely a 'I'll think about it' choice. If you were willing to confess to someone, you must too accept the choice they give in the end and respect it then either move on or get together. The consequences of confession I'd say. Either way, all the best with whatever strikes next! :3

-Aikira (\> w </) ~ *

[smoothy]

Gee... when did no stop meaning no. He was honest... he didn't want to go there. Not every friend of the opposite sex is a candidate for the next level. THat doesn't mean they still can't be good regular friends. I have and always have had lots of friends of the opposite sex....most of them I never considered going to the next level with....though a couple did ask....we did remain friends for years after that.


Look at it this way....nothing ventured...nothing gained. Be graceful in the rejection and you can remain friends. The awkward period will only be as long as you make it that way.