Originally Posted by
lisa1471
Both answers great but its not odd.if you look I said I thought it was cool.Just discussion came up at work that's all.Aime people say opposite.
Then continue the discussion with those that have opposing views, and actually think this is a concern. The majority of people won't have a problem with this.
It is an odd question, because most of the people on this site live in countries where women have rights, and can dress how they want, even if they are married. Their husbands don't own them, they're human beings with the same rights as any other human being, despite their sex. So what's to discuss?
Then again, this is your post, and I have to admit that the fact that you posted it, had the hair on my arms standing straight up the moment I saw it. After all, you think that your husband having a mistress is okay, and your only concern with his mistress is that he loves you more than he loves her. That's warped! Most normal women would never put up with their husbands cheating on them. Most normal women would have left that marriage long ago. Basing my opinion on all your past posts, you are far from normal. You're also not the brightest star in the sky. That's just my opinion.
So far I have yet to see something you posted that didn't strike me as odd, because your views just aren't normal. You are a very frustrating person to give advice to, and all of your posts aren't what a normal person would even think about, much less ask about.
But, as for this question, I posted what I thought. Since this was just a post asking for opinion, I posted mine. You don't have to accept my opinion, like my opinion, or even read it. I have the same right. I don't think it's cool, I don't look at it that way. I view it as her right, cool or not is up to her, and no one else. If someone doesn't like the way she dressed, they can choose not to dress that way themselves. They have no right to tell her not to dress that way. If they want to waste time debating it, all the more power to them. Me, I'd rather not waste my time worrying about things like that. There are far greater things to worry about, or discuss.