[dbjones2]

Been in this position with her for a little over four years and am at the point now to where I kind of just want to finally be able to close this chaper, She has turned me down twice before early on when we first talked. We sayed friends and got closer. The feelings I had for her came back 2 years ago. Then months of last year our convos got more sexual. She admitted to me over the summer that she had thought about being my first since she knew how tough the first time was. She told me this after I told her I wasn't a virgin anymore. She later said she just wanted to be friends. We hung out a week later and I felt like a could've kissed her but I didn't. She later of course told me she thought about kissing me but decided we have been friends for too long and decided not to. I'm at the point now where I'm wondering should I just kiss her within the next two weeks and see what happens. Should I? Oh and right she is single.

[Homegirl 50]

How old are the two of you. Sounds like a lot of game playing.
If she were serious about you, you would know it. I would not try to kiss her, I would stop hanging out with her so much.

[dbjones2]

We are both 22

[talaniman]

Please tell me you haven't been wasting four years for a lousy kiss after being turned down TWICE for romance. Please tell me you have had hundreds of dates and a few romances.

So you really think a kiss will change things? Kiss her good bye and explore your world. Disappear from hers.

[Homegirl 50]

22, please!
I thought this was high school. Walk away and live your life.

[Fr_Chuck]

22? I was thinking jr high and friends in grade school?

If at 22 you are not sure about kissing someone, I am sorry, there are more problems in your life if you have wasted 4 years.

If you are talking sexual with each other, that should come after the kiss, not before.