[stepbrohunter35]

I'm 11 and she is 5 months younger. We met a few months back, I have 2 other step sisters, I love her but we haven't said anything about it. She has shown signs that she likes me. I think our parents think there's something between us. Advice? What should I do? Back off or pursue?Thanks,Hunter

[odinn7]

Back off...2 reasons...

1) You're too young to know what love really is.

2) It's your step sister. Right or wrong, doesn't matter....what matters here is that your parents will kill both of you if this becomes an issue.

NO GOOD CAN COME FROM THIS AT ALL

[stepbrohunter35]

Thanks, you don't know what I've been through. Age does not ean anthing. I knew I would get negative comments. Please say what you want. I want to no everyone's opinion. Srry for grammar. Sent from my phone.

[Homegirl 50]

You are 11, you have no clue.
Leave your step sister alone. It's tacky and very UNcool.

[stepbrohunter35]

I can't sit next to her without wanting to kiss her. We have had physical contact. She is the only one that understands me. I have dreams about her every night. I know truly what this feeling is.

[Fr_Chuck]

A child 11 should not even be having thoughts of kissing. And he such. You have to accept it is just wrong and not have any contact. This is not proper and if you are "mature" like you claim. Then you know that noting good can come from this.

Also at 11, you should not be kissing anyone. Also you have no idea what love is, you are having lust or sexual interest and it is confusing.

[Cat1864]

I guess Ella (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ry-782341.html ) doesn't mean that much to you after all.

[stepbrohunter35]

Sort of, I only ask do I move on because I have a chance moving on

[Fr_Chuck]

Your 11, you should not be "moving" anywhere, if physical contact is part of it. You should be friends only and allow time to move on

[J_9]

I'm sorry Hunter. You are too young to know what love is. How do I know? I have an 11 year old son, he's my youngest. I've raised 3 other 11 year olds.

Not only are you too young to know what love is, it appears you are too young to know right from wrong. In another thread you started you stated that you have already slept with a girl. At your age that is wrong. Loving a relative, a step-sister is a relative, is also wrong.

It it may be time for your parents to have the birds and the bees talk with you before you end up a father before you even start high school.

Oh, and if you were as mature as you think you are, you would know that it is not safe to use real names on the internet.

[Homegirl 50]

You are an 11 year old whose hormones are kicking in. If you were as mature as you think you are, you would know how inappropriate this is and forget about this "move on it" notion. You are too young to be moving on anybody.

[ScottGem]

Age means a great deal despite what you want to think. It means that you are too immature to really understand what you are going through. It means you will feel these feelings several more times before you reach adult hood.

While it is not inappropriate for adult step siblings to get together, since there is no blood relationship, it is inappropriate at your age because you are being put into a situation where intimacy is inappropriate.

Move on!

[stepbrohunter35]

I know not use names. No one is going to find them

[Homegirl 50]

So at 11 years of age you have gone from having sex with one girl to wanting to make a move on another.
Life is not a candy store with girls as candy. You are immature and no where near ready for relationships. Having one with your stepsister is just plain tacky.
How are you doing in school?

[J_9]

My young friend. You have a lot to learn about life before adding love into the mix.

For now, concentrate on your studies and leave the ladies alone until you have grown some facial hair.

[ScottGem]

I peeked at your other thread. I hope "slept with" meant you fell asleep in the same bed. Because if you are playing (and at 11 it is playing) at sex at 11 then you are heading for big trouble down the road. Ella is lucky her father got her out of your influence.

It also explains your feelings for your step sister. It isn't love its lust and it is wrong. Sex is not a game or recreation. It's a serious matter to share with someone you are in a mature long term relationship with. Something that is not going to happen at 11.

[talaniman]

You are out of control and driven by this sex thing you think is love. This is neither correct, or healthy and really is predatory, and dangerous for those you think you love. You need to stop this behavior immediately because you really don't know the harm you can cause to yourself, and others.