[emjen2]

Ok, so there's this guy. I think I like him, but I'm not sure. He's the only one that tells me that I'm cute and beautiful, He makes me feel special. But my friends tell me that he says this to all the other girls. He keeps asking me to hang out with him, and I do, but he's always like "Are you wear yoga pants?" or "lets work out ;)" and I feel like all he wants to do is try to get with me. I don't know what to do! Please help!

[Homegirl 50]

How old are you?
If you think he is just out to "get you" maybe he is. I think he knows you are flattered because he talks to you and are vulnerable. You need to watch yourself around him.

[Alty]

I'm confused, why would asking if you're wearing yoga pants, or want to work out, mean he's trying to "get with you"? I assume you mean he wants to have sex?

Is wearing yoga pants and working out code for sex nowadays? Is that the new terms the kids are using?

[emjen2]

Lets just start by saying, he's a really nice guy, and he makes me feel important. He calls me cute, and beautiful. A lot of my friends say not to talk to him because he says the same thing to every other girl. He is always asking me to hang out, and when I say I can't he gets mad, and stops talking to me. I'm always the one who apologizes, even when it's not my fault. He recently stopped talking to me, because of no reason. He's in 11th grade, and I'm in 9th. I guess the reason why I still talk to him, is because he is the only person that makes me feel like I mean something to someone, I feel like he is just using me. I don't know what to do. Every time I try not speaking to him, I end up giving in.
What should I do?

[J_9]

No. He doesn't like you. Boys who actually like girls treat them with kindness and respect. He treats you horribly.

[timboslice222]

Coming from a guy he's just trying to get some if he was looking for a relationship hed go about it a different way then just basically asking you if you want to have sex in different words... and if he says that to other girls that should be your hint you're just another girl to him and fyi guys can be very charming to get sex.


And you're young you'll have plenty of people make you feel special just give it time

[talaniman]

Stop speaking to him or are you that desperate for attention? Come on everyone has told you he gives the same old lines to everyone so why does it make YOU feel good. Its just bait to get what he wants. You KNOW that.