[pratu123]

I am 22 yrs old & from navi mumbai. V both have graduated last yr. I am in a relationship 4 past 2 years,and I truly love my boyfriend and so does he, recently my mom came to know about our relationship(she checkd my celphne messeges) I told her that I love him.der was this whole drama of cryng and emotionally tocherng me & also threatening me and its still continuing. The problem is, that he is maharastrian and I am south indian (bt my native place is orrisa).my celphne is also confesicated... bt how ever v both are in contct through internet.. v both are not employd.. he is findng a job and I'll get a job in few months and v both want to marry each other,bt my parents will never allow that, and in his (bf)family dey know that der is some girl in his life(evry 1 knws bt my boyfriend has not personally told them) my parents are worried about society. Please tell me what should I do.. v both can't live without each other.. plzz help uss..

[Fr_Chuck]

First why did you date him for 2 years, you knew parents would never agree??

You should have told parents about him from the beginning.

Now you have two choices, obey family, or marry him against family wishes.

Your choice

[pratu123]

It was not in my mind ,it just happened!! N I appreciate your reply... thnk u

[pratu123]

I told my parents that he is my very good friend,at that point of time they liked him,bt as soon has they came to know that he is my boyfriend,every thing went against him, and they just over reacted to the whole situation, I know it is very hard for them to accept it,but I have never let them down in my studies, and will never in my career phrase also, its just that I want to marry a person whom I love.. and trust me he is a great guy, am I asking very much from them??