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    Dec 26, 2013, 09:49 PM
    I want to get married but no women around
    So I am relatively new immigrant to Canada, I am 6,2 , well educated,30 year, rich and have a good job . My only problem that I can't find any woman for marriage, and it seem I don't know how to find women. When I go to super market for example and start conversation with women , most women assume I am player.
    The only women that give me their attention is the married ones and I think they just seek attention .
    I can't see how can I meet women if every time I talk with a woman she give me a cold shoulder even the women from my same back home country .

    Note: I came from an invironment that marriage happnes by arranged marriage so I didn't used to approach women and talk with them , I was always busy in my career .

    Don't suggest to go to my back home country because that is no possible for me .
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    Dec 27, 2013, 12:54 AM
    Meeting just happens, in civic groups, religious groups, at work. And it develops over months of knowing.

    Or internet dating sites,

    Also, why not have marriage arranged from old country,

    Or from another. An arranged marriage is common in areas like China where I live.
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    Dec 27, 2013, 04:23 AM
    The usual places to meet people:
    Through friends and family.
    Work.
    Regular groups such as religious, cultural, academic, sports, hobbies, book clubs, etc.
    One time events such as lectures.
    Coffee shops, libraries, parks.
    Dating sites - e-harmony has a long questionnaire that might be good for you.
    I'd start, however, by looking for a group of your nationality in your area.
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    Dec 27, 2013, 08:44 AM
    Stop looking for marriage and stop expecting females to be forth coming in judging you for a husband. You are a stranger in a strange culture so do as the natives do and engage and interact. Look to make friends and socialize through activities and events, and meet people. It can be fun and a great way to learn how things are done. Hunting for a wife is just plain crazy since marriage in this part of the world usually comes after much fun and interaction and females rarely even let strange males close to them.

    Who cares they think you are a player, that's just them and their impression. Just don't get so stuck on one, that you fail to see and pursue other, better, options and for that you have to check them all out. Take your time and enjoy the dating process and don't just give your heart to a cutie you know nothing about. Talk to them all, as you build a life in this strange land, and culture, that you enjoy. Take time and effort.

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