[smargirl07]

Hello! I hope someone with some experience can help me.

I have a boyfriend for more than three years, almost two of them long distance. Since we met, we never had been very sexually active, but just normal once or twice at week, until I went back to my home country. We have a great relationship, we are best friends, we love each other so much and are great company. We enjoy the same things we are great. Since, I went back to my country he told me he doesn't see himself married to me, and for that reason, I should not stay besides him for the moment. We have talked, seriously, about our relationship three or four time and his answer is the same (he loves me, he want us to be "together" but he doesn't want to married not now, not ever).

The last conversation he finally popped it up. The reason is he is not sexually attracted to me and he can't think about giving the next step for such reason. I must say, although my boyfriend was in his late 20's he was virgin and I wasn't. He was a very shy guy, now not so much, but still have trouble socializing, he gets bored very soon. He also never have a girlfriend before. I must say we practically broke up. It is not official, but just a matter of time.

[talaniman]

The lust has gone, and there is no love or future. Just dating and fun(?), and of course sex. Maybe a nice experience for you and him, and now he is experienced and told you he will not marry you.

Talk is over, so is this relationship, time to break up and leave him alone and stop servicing his body period. He may not be sexual attracted to you, but no doubt will keep having sex if you let him. DON"T!!!!!!

[Homegirl 50]

The problem is not so much the sex, he does not want a relationship with you.
Leave him alone. Maybe he has met someone else. Let him go.