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    gracemm Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 8, 2013, 10:27 PM
    Are me and my boyfriend moving to fast?
    So I'm a sophomore in high school and Im dating this guy I've known for about a year
    We have been friends and know we've been dating as of 2 weeks ago
    All though we did makeout a couple times before we officially started dating
    Anyway so we went on our first date... and it wasn't even really a date
    All we did is make out
    And then he felt up my boobs, under the bra
    I mean we've only been dating for 2 weeks so I don't know if that's to fast
    Like if that's what he's going to do after 2 weeks
    Then what is he going to do after a month or 2
    Am I over thinking this?
    Also all we do when we hangout is make out. Like we barely talk at all
    Does he just want me for physical reasons or?
    Help I need advice!
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    Dec 8, 2013, 11:18 PM
    Talk to him. He's your boyfriend. It is too fast to get physical, to start groping, feeling you up, and not talking to you or taking you on a real date. His agenda seems really clear, which is to get into your panties.

    If this isn't something you want, if you're not ready to be a mom, which can happen if you take this to the next step that he's running towards, than tell him, talk to him.

    If you can't talk to your boyfriend about how you feel, he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
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    Dec 9, 2013, 05:57 AM
    Way too fast. It certainly sounds like he's using you for sex and will see how far you will go.

    What I want to know is why you let him inside your bra let alone inside your shirt. Is he the first boy you let do that? The fact that you have 'made out' before you officially started dating, may have been leading him on to think he can do that.

    I suggest you drop him before you find yourself pregnant.
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    Dec 9, 2013, 06:08 AM
    If he liked you for you, making out with you would not be what he would be doing so soon. Since you did before you dated maybe he thinks this is what you are about. Tell him you would like to go on a real date not a make out session. My thought is sex and making out is what he's after.

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