[Nab28]

Hi. I'm a Cancer woman with an Aquarius man been together for two months now. He was my summer "love" Lol. After summer when we all went back to school we became an item.

I was recently about 8 months ago with a Leo man wasn't so good to me, he treated me badly now that has changed, I made a promise to myself I'm never giving my whole into any relationship again.

The part that sucks the most is it's a LDR! I know deep down I like him no matter the distance I still want to see how far it will go. I might be seeing him in a couple of weeks hopefully. Anyway I just want a little advice being with an Aquarius man, just a tip will be good enough.

Thanks .

[joypulv]

My advice is to give up thinking that astrology will help.
Don't tweet your other friends when with him.
Don't get drunk and spend the night at another guy's apartment.
That's as far as I got reading about your last LDR.

[talaniman]

Looking for romance with an internet buddy is all words and no actions. Have fun but keep it real with no commitment or high expectations. Summer flings are usually over when the summer is over and people go back to reality.

Astrological signs are really useless when you don't know yourself well enough to deal with people, places and situations in positive ways for yourself. And the danger of such LDR's are that you build a false world around another person and assume without the benefit of building reality in person.

Nothing wrong with fun and fantasy, as long as you put reality FIRST, no matter the sign or the distance. You want to see how it goes? Then don't get carried away by your feelings or distracted from YOUR reality by building a fantasy around this person, who probably had a life of his own before you, and after you met.

I mean what kind of item can you both be when he isn't even there? Already you are giving this fling more life than your real life. Just have fun learning about each other, because the beginning is always magic, but what's left after that?

My tip is learn the true character and nature of a person before you give them your heart. Birth signs don't tell you that.

[Oliver2011]

Aquarius men are the worst. Trust me I know.

But seriously I agree with the others. The astrological signs thing won't get you far in a relationship.