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    Kayleeboo99 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 22, 2013, 10:00 PM
    I need some help I don't think I'm bi??
    Ok so I was at my friends house and we were just having fun not doing anything weird and it started getting really late like at 3:00 in the morning. I fell asleep for a little while and then I wake up to a lot of movement. When I opened my eyes my friend was grinding on me and I freaked out and she was trying to calm me down, but I was freaking out because I never saw this coming. So finally I calmed down and she told me that she always felt a sort of attraction to me and that if she tried something like to just experiment maybe she could have determined if she was bi or not and I asked her why she didn't just ask me for a kiss and she said she was under a lot of pressure. So she then asked me if we could kiss and I didn't think it was a big deal so I was like OK, but then it kind of turned into a makeout for like 2 minutes. Now I'm starting to feel a really weird attraction? Does this mean I'm bi? Please somebody help me!
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    Nov 22, 2013, 10:10 PM
    If you're attracted to her and want more from her sexually, it's very possible that you're bi.

    What disturbs me about your post is that she molested you while you were sleeping, and you accepted that, and then agreed to make out with her.

    She had no right, no matter how confused she is, or how attracted to you she is, to do what she did while you were sleeping.
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    Nov 22, 2013, 10:18 PM
    I agree with you about the making out part that's why I'm thinking that I might be bi but I still like boys but the whole entire her grinding on me I did not accept I freaked out when she did that I didn't say that I was OK to her molesting me I said OK to kissing me which leads me to think that I might be bi
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    Nov 23, 2013, 07:38 AM
    How old are you?
    I think what she did was the same as molesting you in your sleep, it was wrong. You may not be bi but sexually curious. I'd stay away from her.
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    Nov 23, 2013, 04:39 PM
    You could just be bi curious, how old are you? Being attracted and experimenting with same sex people isn't the same as being sexually active with them.

    I wouldn't worry about what you are, just what you do as you discover, and define yourself.
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