[Tyler4614]

Before she got pregnant we had a good relationship. Even when she suspected she was pregnant she was fine. After a few weeks she stopped wanting me around as much and did not talk the same. Around 11 weeks we broke up because she lost feelings and did not love me. I tried getting back together with her recently and did not work. She has blocked me on Facebook. I don't know what to do.

[LittleBlackKat]

You leave her alone. There's not a whole lot you can do at this point if she has decided to remove you from every aspect of her life. She can make her own choices, and you need to do the same and just respect that she wants to be left alone, and only when she initiates further contact should you respond.

[Cat1864]

May I ask how old you both are? How long were you together? How long has it been since you broke up? How far along is her pregnancy? Is she still pregnant?

If she is not pregnant, then you need to leave her alone to work through her own thoughts and feelings. Use No Contact as a means to give yourself time to heal and keep confusion down to a minimum.

If she is pregnant and you think it is your child, then you need to stop trying to get her back. However, you do need to give her an open invitation to discuss the future of your child. You need to be prepared for a DNA test and providing for the child. It might be an idea to consult with a lawyer who can give you guidance in knowing what your rights and responsibilities are as a father.

If a child is involved, it stops being about your ex and you and becomes what is best for the child. Children need parents who can work together whether or not they are a couple.

[talaniman]

Making a baby is a life changing event, and you need to respect her wish to be left alone.