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    mdog294 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 15, 2013, 01:06 PM
    Irrational fear of being pregnant?
    Almost a month ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around. It didn't come to oral ex or the act of sex... but I was inside of his pants for a minute and there was some pre-, which I had felt. He never fully came. However, about 2min after the pre- incident I needed to adjust my underwear in my pants... so now I am scared that somehow the pre- swam into my vagina and that I might be pregnant...

    So it is around the time of my period and I should be getting it any day. I have had a lot of vaginal discharge lately and I have read that it is a sign that my period is coming but I have also read it is a sign that I could be pregnant...

    Finally I have read that the only way pre- can get someone pregnant is that if the last time the guy ejaculated wasn't fully "cleared out," (like peeing) the left over sperm would be in the pre-, since it is a cleansing action. Before my boyfriend and I started fooling around he went pee several times...

    So am I being crazy and is the likelihood of me being pregnant non-existent or is there still a chance that I may be pregnant... thank you so much!
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    Nov 15, 2013, 01:16 PM
    If you are this scared of becoming pregnant and you worry this much over it...perhaps it's time to re-think the whole sex thing and wait until you are actually ready for it.

    But yes...technically you could become pregnant this way...it is possible but not very likely....chances are very much against it.

    But if it was me...and I sweated this much over things that I truly didn't understand, I would wait until I did understand...and was ready.

    Finally I have read that the only way pre- can get someone pregnant is that if the last time the guy ejaculated wasn't fully "cleared out," (like peeing) the left over sperm would be in the pre-, since it is a cleansing action. Before my boyfriend and I started fooling around he went pee several times...
    That's wrong. Not sure where you read this but...no.
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    Nov 15, 2013, 01:23 PM
    Putting your hand in his pants and then in your pants to adjust them 2 minutes later is not going to get viable sperm into your vagina.

    That being said, the world is full of millions of women who manage to find themselves pregnant despite all sorts of odds. Of course they don't always report the situation correctly, and who is going around watching people fool around?
    Anyway, if the odds are .000001%, there are still enough women having sex (maybe about 2 billion?) to make that group be several thousand.
    I'd say your odds are .000000000000001%, but that's just a guess of course. The only way it can be zero is if you don't have sex, and don't even fall asleep without a chastity belt.

    (It is known that many women who worry have delayed or even absent periods, further adding to their worry...)
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    Nov 15, 2013, 06:32 PM
    Thank you very much!

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