[tommy36062]

Hi guys, I need some advice from a mature audience. A few weeks back, my best friends ( she's 13 and I'm 14 ) had some problems. She began cutting herself, and showed me a pic on Facebook, she has mental issues like depression and insomnia. Anyway I left my Facebook open on the family computer about 2 months ago, and my mum saw the picture of her cuts. So my mum called her school, and the school called the girl in. When she confronted me, asking how the school knew; I knew my mum had seen. And I didn't want her to be angry at my mum. So I said it was me. This lead to a major break up and argument after argument. We would achieve ground, then have it collapse under us overnight. However, she knows the truth that I took the blame and she was incredibly angry that I "broke her trust." We just continued argueing our points. And a few weeks ago, she said to me she wanted a break. To stop talking until January ( we go to different schools and met at an athletics club, she performs in a lot of plays and her rehearsal time cuts in with training time. The play will be performed in January, after which she'll return to training ) out of respect and love and fear I'd hurt her anymore; I said okay. I said I would not talk to her until January. And I haven't. However I have a deep feeling of longing and pain inside me. We were so very close and I honestly felt a strong love for her as if she were my sister. And I her brother, I want nothing more then to speak to her, but my respect and fear hold me back. I don't want too upset her, what do I do guys? Sorry this was so long, but English can't be rushed! Thanks

[Homegirl 50]

You leave her alone.
I don't understand this "give me a break until". A break is a break. Don't stay dangling on her chain. Leave her alone. She sounds like an immature drama queen.

[talaniman]

Keep your word and see what happens. Painful or not. I advise caution being so attached to one who has extreme issues. Get use to much more pain from her. I am sure your parents have warned you also.