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Boyfirend v. best friend
Okay, here's the thing, my best friend made me do something that I promised my boyfriend I wouldn't do anymore because she didn't know that I stopped, and he hates her now, because I told him because I didn't want him to hate me. And now he hates her and whenever he sees us together he gets all depressed and everything and I don't know what to do. I love him more than anyone I've ever loved anyone and hse's the best friend I've ever had:eek:
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First of all did your best friend hold a gun to your head? If not, then she didn't MAKE you do anything... you chose to do it. Secondly, why would you blame your friend if she didn't know of your promise? You aren't much of a best friend if you ask me. Finally, what you should do is tell your boyfriend that he shouldn't be mad at your best friend because it was you who broke the promise and made the decision to do so. You should not make promises that you aren't going to keep. You should not blame your mistakes on other people. You should not bow to the pressures of other people and you should stop kidding yourself. If you loved him as much as you say you do then you wouldn't have broken your promise. All you can do at this point is ask for forgiveness and another chance and spend the rest of your time together proving that you are honest and trustworthy.
I hope you learned something valuable here. You'll figure it all out one day. Didi |
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I think you should just tell your best friend what is going on...
Common get the guts out... The worst thing that is going to happen is her saying ohh... Maybe you should also talk to the BF ( boyfrend ) of yours why he is getting depressed and al this and that... |
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Let me guess it was drugs?? Your friend is in the wrong for even letting you do stuff like that? And if you boyfriend doesn't like you doing it, it's probably for your own good. Maybe your boyfriend has the right to be mad at your so called "friend" but think it over. I think you shouldn't have to choose between the two but to choose your friends well..?
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