[Heartache94]

Where do I begin?. been dating this girl for over a year. We were so in love with each other. We would send lovey dovey messages everyday every hour every second. We have had problems over the past few months i.e. not talking as much due to exams. About a week ago I finally had time tk talk to her but she changed. Now it was just one word answers.. I had to say I love her before she said it. She alao kept bringing up another guy who she claimed was just a friend. She wouldsay how much she misses him and how he was there fkr her when she needed someone. Shenstarted having delings for him and showed less affection for me.. I really love her and the thought of her with another guy just kills me.She keeps saying how she still loves but.. but hkw her love for him is on another level. I feel if I break up I won't be able to last long without her.. our memories.together will keep popping up. What do I do?? </3

[joypulv]

You are both young. In school. This happens 99% of the time. Lovey dovey texts mean nothing anyway - apparently she met someone who is more available, in person.

I don't get the constant need to say I love you. Love isn't words, it's a rich and complicated set of life moments and struggles and compromises and appreciations of each other.

How do you get over her? The same way millions of us do every year - immerse yourself back into school and friends and family and what you will do with your future. You need a solid self before you depend on romance, and you also need to learn what happens when romance progresses to other stages.