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    Aug 23, 2013, 07:40 AM
    What do you do when your mom hates the girl you want to marry?
    Its been 4 years. I am in a relation with a girl. Every thing was perfect in starting years. I love this girl a lot and I want to marry her and spend all of my life with her.

    But my parents don't like her. The first time she came to my house for dinner to meet my family. We had fun. Everyone was enjoying her, but the time she step out from our house my mom said straight away that I'm not going to let you marry this girl.

    We both love each other more then are lives. Everyday she asks me "when are you going to ask for my hand from my parents?" and I have no answer. Please help
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    Aug 23, 2013, 07:45 AM
    Your age and country would help. Thanks
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    Aug 23, 2013, 10:15 AM
    Love don't pay the rent so can you both support each other and be independent of your parents? If not tell your girl that no point in getting married if you can't feed each other and keep a roof over your heads.

    Until that day why ask the parents for anything?
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    Aug 23, 2013, 10:33 AM
    Good point. That is how I learned to deal with many things to avoid conflicts with many people in many situations.
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    Oct 1, 2013, 12:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Your age and country would help. Thanks
    Im 22 andvim from dubai
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    Oct 1, 2013, 01:48 PM
    Mommy said NO. Tell your girl that mommy said NO, so she can move on, and stop being strung along.

    I know its against your culture and tradition to disobey your parents. What they want may not make you happy though. Surely not now.
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    Oct 2, 2013, 12:32 AM
    As soon as your mom said NO, why did you keep dating here?

    You have a few choices

    1. tell your mom you are going to date her anyway ?
    2. talk to your father who will order your mother to shut up and allow the marriage
    3. marry her anyway, regardless of what your parents say
    4. break up with her.

    So what do you want to do
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