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    Shahraiz Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 8, 2013, 05:27 AM
    My girlfriend wants a break. What should I do?
    I have been dating this girl for last 18 months, but on the 10th month I hacked into her Facebook account and found that she was committed to some one else who never tried any thing for her and she was always like please be with me say you want me or put your relation status to be in a relationship with me on Facebook at same time she was with me.

    When I asked her about him she apologized and promised me that her feelings were gone for him and now she loves me. After that I saw her added on the persons Facebook commenting each other liking pictures of each other. When I asked about this she said that they are just friends and she loves me. I asked her to delete him so we had a fight about it and she deleted him and me too.

    I had gotten over with it, but after some weeks one day she didn't go to her office and when I asked she said that there was a test on that day and she asked me for a break for some days. I have given the break and she comes one day and one night after the break and wishes me good morning text after I asked her has her break ended. She said that yes she is OK now. Then I asked her for a break and she is like how much time you need more after 2 days?

    I am thinking that I should end this relation. Of course it hurts and not easy but I don't want her to be in sincere.

    What to do? Help
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    accidentpron16 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 8, 2013, 05:33 AM
    I personaly think you should end it with her if she is acting that way that probably means she is still talking to other guys. For a girl a break also means to freedom to talk to who ever you want.
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    Jul 8, 2013, 06:02 AM
    I have to be honest guy that it's never good to snoop/hack the accounts of anyone let alone your girlfriend, and then you find reasons to feel she is a lying cheater, then she is done chasing this guy behind your back AFTER she is caught. She is not the insecure one, you are and that makes for a bad partner, and she already is. That's a toxic mix, a cheater and an insecure snoop will never work any way.
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    Oliver2011 Posts: 2,606, Reputation: 746
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    Jul 8, 2013, 06:16 AM
    If you are to the point where you have to hack into her FB account then you probably need to move on. You don't trust her and that doesn't look like it will change near term.

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