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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:13 PM
    Mom Or Dad Hardest choice ever
    I have lived with my dad for nine years since I was 3. I have siblings on my moms side and now my siblings are going to live with my mom I also want to go live with her but I don't know if I should. My dad treats me well and I'm well taken care of. My mom also treats me well and id be well taken care of. I just don't know if id be able to handle such a big switch. My parents have raised me two different ways so do you think id b able to handle it I only have till the end of summer to decide so please help me. Remember I'm only a teen. I'm so lost idont know who to stay with. I really want to try it but I need some advice from people my age or parents
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:16 PM
    I have lived with my dad for nine years since I was 3
    So you are 12, correct?
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:18 PM
    I would stay with dad, you can still talk to and know the other family, but your home is where you have been the last 9 years.

    Next, to be honest, it is not really your choice, who have to live where the court order says you are suppose to live.
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:20 PM
    More to the story Chuck.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...om-755888.html
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    So you are 12, correct?
    No I am 14 I have lived with my dad for 11 years
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:22 PM
    I have lived with my dad for nine years since I was 3
    Nine = 9 not 11.

    We don't do to well with liars here.
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    I would stay with dad, you can still talk to and know the other family, but your home is where you have been the last 9 years.

    Next, to be honest, it is not really your choice, who have to live where the court order says you are suppose to live.
    Its actually been 11 years I goofed and put 9 I miss counted thank you
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Nine = 9 not 11.

    We don't do to well with liars here.
    I wasn't lying I just messed up everyone makes mistakes I was born in '98
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    Jun 28, 2013, 11:26 PM
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    I goofed and put 9 I miss counted
    In your other thread you said it was a friend who miscalculated. Now you are saying you messed up. Which is it?

    Yes I know my friend was off by a lot

    So you have been caught in a lie.
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    Jul 2, 2013, 09:40 AM
    You posted this somewhere else because I answered it on the law page. I think you should stay with your mom for the summer to help you decide by the time its time to go back to school
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    Jul 2, 2013, 09:43 AM
    ... and I see you asked it twice on this board as well

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