[longlife]

Where to start, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 months and I couldn't be happier. Recently, it came out that I still had some attachments to my ex in the way of a car, (both names on it) I never told her because I wanted to come into this relationship free of my past. Needless to say she was mad which I can understand.

She told me that she didn't know if we would still be together or not. Well one of her friends that she has had a strained friendship with due to past bad mouthing between the two called me and said the day she technically broke up with me she went over some other guys house, which I know was a (fling) at one time and she has told me about him that she used to sleep with him. I confronted her about it and she told me that she told her friend (B) that to see how long it would get back to me and see what kind of a friend he really was. She also stated that her best girlfriend knows that she told this supposed lie to (B) and she could confirm it. Now (B) is telling me stuff that she told him about me, and vice versa.

My question is who do I believe? My heart says my girlfriend. My girlfriend has always been upfront with me about her past relationships and flings, and if I ask her about a person she doesn't seem to get agitated. She told me that she would never go to his house but they are just friends, which is fine with me as long as there is no extracurricular activities’ going on because if there is I would flip out. Who do I believe? I'm stuck in the middle of two (ex) friends that are both telling me things that the other person has said or done either regarding me or non directly regarding me. CONFUSED!!

[Homegirl 50]

Who needs this much drama in a 6 month relationship? What does it matter if you and your ex have your name on a car? Do you still see and talk to her?
She broke up with you so why are you worried about believing her? Leave her alone.Who she sees is her business.

[longlife]

Well apparently she is second guessing her decision to break up after talking to her true friends. They are telling her she over reacted. Guess we will see what happens. But your right, it is too much Drama!

[Homegirl 50]

Yep and this shows the type of person she is. Your time with her would no doubt be full of drama.

[talaniman]

All this drama over the past? And you aren't pissed that she makes a big deal about it? Don't be blind, just know you have a drama queen and her friends also drama queens having their fun.

You don't want all this drama, walk away, believe none of them, and do better for yourself. Take this as a warning and preview of things to come from this bunch.