[anamikasp]

Hi I am 33 years old and have been married 6 months ago now I am pregnant with my first child and I am confused I don't want the child right now say till 6 more months and thinking for an abortion , but I am quite scared as my hubby and my in laws want child but I don't think I am ready enough plus not settled well right . I really need to know what shall I do I haven't told anyone that I am pregnant except my elder sister who also told me to wait for awhile and should get it aborted . If I do get abortion done will my chnaces to become mother again will slim down ? Please help I am confused

[LearningAsIGo]

Yes, an abortion can make a future pregnancy harder to achieve.

What difference would waiting only six months make? You sound scared (cold feet?). I highly suggest talking to an impartial person such as a counselor about your confusion, fears and plans. Now that you're married, I believe you are obligated to tell your husband you are pregnant. You're in this together and he should be a source of support for you. Be honest and work through it together. Don't make any decisions you will regret later.