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    Mar 23, 2007, 10:30 PM
    Can my marriage survive despite my feelings?
    I got married less than a year ago. The man I married, I had been dating for a couple of years and had a child. I married him believing I was totally in love. After the honeymoon, I started realizing that I had not completely gotten over my high school sweetheart whom I dated for over 6 years. Now, I constantly have thoughts about my ex. I sometimes wonder if I should have really married my ex. I am trying to get past my thoughts and feelings. Can my marriage survive with these feelings? What should I do?
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    Mar 24, 2007, 05:03 AM
    Focus on making a happy home for your husband and child. Yes the honeymoon is over, and you maybe letdown emotionally but dwelling on the past is no way to deal with the now. I'm sure there are many things that need doing as you get a plan for yourself and new family as to what you want your life to be about. Stay focused and get busy. Do you work? How old are you?
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