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    missbabe1111 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 7, 2013, 10:41 AM
    My man will not touch me
    My man will not touch me at all no more. He is 51 and I am 24. We were together for 8 years and 3 kids, but now he gets mad if I touch him or even bump into him. We do not have sex no more. If we do he tell me to get out of his face, and he still do not touch me. He always say touch me and I will slap you up side your head. He calls me stupid all the time, like get your stupid A$$ up and do this, and it hurts so bad I cry like every day, but when I talk he do not care.

    I am so tired of it. Please help cause I can't take it no more.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 10:58 AM
    You need to communicate with him without fighting. Be an adult here, him too. Sounds as if he is not feeling much attraction to you. So I would have a heart to heart with him and go from there. If he doesn't respond well, I would consider seeking some counselling.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 11:29 AM
    If it's that bad then leave.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 11:39 AM
    Why put up with that? Leave him.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 12:34 PM
    Thanks I got a little bigger I use to be 120 now like 139 that is what it is I thank trying 2 get back to like 125 working out and diet pills
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    Jun 7, 2013, 12:49 PM
    This fellow has been grooming you to be a wife that he controls since your puberty. This has nothing to do with your weight, its about his dominance and in a few years you will be his nurse.

    Were you sold to him or was this arranged by some one? Sorry this is slavery.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 01:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    This fellow has been grooming you to be a wife that he controls since your puberty. This has nothing to do with your weight, its about his dominance and in a few years you will be his nurse.

    Were you sold to him or was this arranged by some one? Sorry this is slavery.
    I agree. He seems like a loser. He was in his 40's when you were a teenager, not only is that illegal, it's also sad.

    You are young, but I bet you're aging faster than anyone your age. Free yourself from this man.

    Forget everything I just said, get away, fast.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 03:12 PM
    This man is a pervert and a pedophile. He was grooming you since you were 16 years old. Now, at 24, you are most likely too old for him. I'm guessing he may be looking for other children to groom rather than being with you.

    He doesn't love you. Lovers don't abuse each other. Either verbally or physically. You need to take your children and get away from him.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 05:18 PM
    You were 16 and he was 43 when you guys hooked up. He broke the law. You were a minor. This type of relationship will not continue to work. Sounds like he likes "younger" girls. Really.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 05:19 PM
    You were 16, a child, when you two met. Now you're 24. Sounds like you're too old for him. It's time for him to find another child he can molest and mold. You're no longer attractive to him, you're an adult, he likes to play with children.

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